Totally Single

(Would like everyone to know that I'm not using actual names from here out. ^_^)

Sunday night just about everyone had left. J had just went to his car when Bro. C pulled up once more. He got out of the car and went to pick something up off of a bench. I almost laughed at the site of him carrying a purse. "She leaves this thing everywhere and the moment she realizes it's gone I have to drop everything I'm doing and go get it!" He mumbled to himself then stopped as he saw me. "What are you doing out here by yourself?" He asked as he walked over to me. "Watching my little brother and waiting for M and SR to get back from the oasis Building" I replied. As J started to drive off I thought out loud "I wonder if I left anything in his car? I leave more stuff in his car then I do anyone else's." I stated quite simply. I had almost forgotten Bro. C was standing next to me when he said "Oh, are you two dating?" "What?! Me and J? No...." I replied. "...no." I said once more confirmingly.

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Tuesday night near the end of the altar service I went and sat with my friend who I hadn't seen in a while. A little girl came up to me and whispered in my ear "Are you and that guy dating?" She asked. I turned to look at him then looked back at the girl. "No." I said flatly starting to despise such questions. "Ok." She said and turned around to the other girl standing next to her, "I told you." She said quite matter of factly. "Well, I just thought..." Whatever else she said was lost.

Later on that night...

I was sitting on a bench next to him(again) when another of my friends came out and sat on the bench opposite us. We continued to talk for awhile and then finally there was silence. "So..." said the one sitting across from us, "are you two dating now?" He asked innocently. My friend instantly moved farther away from me and shouted "I HATE YOU!" at the exact moment I started to say, "GET AWAY FROM ME YOU FREAK!"

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There have been many people hooking up at our church as of recent, it would so seem that due to the fact everyone else is hooking up everytime I hang out with one of my guy friends I must be dating that person, I mean, why else would I be hanging out with him? Well, I'm tired of it. No, I'm not dating anyone and no, I don't plan to. People keep asking if I have a date for the Spring Formal and my answer is always, "Am I suppose to?" I don't think it's impossible for me to be just friends with a guy and I will prove it. I have stayed single this long and just because everyone else has a boyfriend or girlfriend does not mean that I have to! So yeah I am Totally Single and happy that way. ^_^